вторник, 7 октября 2014 г.


 Body language in  different situations
        Most of how we communicate is not said with words, it is said with our body language and gestures.  A lot of the time we use our body language to communicate information to others without saying a word, flirting for instance, we let a man or women know we are interested in them well before they approach us to communicate. First impression  are very important. A lot of information  is  derived  from a person`s  gestures. The way  one walks, sits,  presents themselves.  There are eye contact, shaking hands, person displays,  personal space . 
           So, what about me. Body language or gestures are very useful things for me. I love to read literature of psychology. It helps  to avoid a confused situation. I know how to read Body Language. I want to tell some interesting  situations. You know that i  am studying  with my new  groupmates only one month.  But I am   very observant person. This  amazing  girl wears glasses, and is constantly pushing them up onto their nose again, with a slight frown, that  indicate they disagree with what someone are saying. Lowered eyebrows and squinted eyes illustrate an attempt at understanding what is being said or going on. It's usually skeptical. This is presuming she is  not trying to observe something that's far away.  It`s only my opinion , but  practice makes perfect.
     Some  guys in my group very often crossed arms are closing themselves to social influence. Though some people just cross their arms as a habit, it may indicate that the person is (slightly) reserved, uncomfortable with their appearance (self-conscious and trying to cover it), or just trying to hide something on their shirt. Their arms are crossed while their feet are shoulder width or wider apart, this is a position of toughness or authority.
       Also be aware of their surroundings. If it's cold, or it might seem cold to them, they're probably just trying to stay warm.
Someone rests their arms behind their neck or head, they are open to what is being discussed or just laid back in general.
If their hands are on their hips, they might be waiting, impatient or just tired.
If their hands are closed or clenched, they may be irritated, angry, or nervous.
  “ Body talk, body talk. You don`t  even have  to say a word, you can use your body and you`ll be heard” - it`s true.



4 комментария:

  1. Alina, you're too perceptive! :)
    Have you ever thought about getting an education of psychologist?)

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    1. Yes, you are right. Maybe I will get an education of psychologist in future))) I am experienced in this subject) I protected course work of psychological techniques)

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  2. You can understand a lot about how a person is feeling by examining his body language.
    I think, it is very necessary to keep eye contact during a conversation with people.
    I know that people who lean towards each other are displaying an interest in each other. What do you think about it?

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  3. After reading your article and looking the last picture I understand that we should be responsible not only for out actions, but also for our gestures. We have an immense number of it, and sometimes it can be misunderstood. Especially we should follow after our gestures when children are near us.

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